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Healthy Sexuality & Intimacy for Men

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A safe space for healing 

This week-long program offers a unique therapeutic experience for men who are coping with unresolved painful past events through unhealthy sexual addictions and patterns. By creating a safe space for healing, we guide and encourage you to move from a place of shame and isolation into greater intimacy and connection with the self and others.  

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Find a new way forward

Safe to be yourself

Be with people who understand without judgment. Share freely within the context of a safe container of solidarity.

Experience healing

Unravel the root of destructive behavior and gain the tools you need to find sustained health.

Clinical expertise

Our team of therapists provides knowledgeable guidance to help you unravel the issues that are getting in the way of the connection you desire.

Healing hospitality

Let nature nurture, enjoy good meals, and sleep deeply. Our team covers all the details so you can focus on what you came here to do.

alum reviews

  • The Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy program created a safe space to share and not be judged.
    –Craig
    Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy Alum
  • I came to the Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy program needing help and tools for my addiction. Instead, I received ten times that and a changed life.
    –Matt
    Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy Alum

    What we’ll workshop

    Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy explores dynamics that fuel sexual issues, including: 

    • Trauma 
    • Shame 
    • Family of origin 
    • Grief 
    • Loss 
    • Denial 
    • Neurobiology 

    This workshop can help you begin to heal: 

    • Sexual compulsivity 
    • Sexual addiction 
    • Sexual anorexia 
    • Unresolved trauma 
    • Chronic shame 

    Upcoming Workshops

    Book now and get the tools you deserve. 

    Each day will include:

    • Meditations
    • Psychoeducational lectures
    • 6 hrs of experiential group therapy with a small cohort of men 
    • Guided community activities designed to help you heal

    Workshop experience includes:

    • Boutique accommodations at an Onsite Campus
    • Nourishing meals curated to meet your dietary needs
    • Thoughtfully designed space to foster rest and connection
    • Expansive outdoor space and hiking trails for exploration and nature-guided healing

    Cost: $8,200

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    January 30-February 6, 2025 Tennessee

    Open

    May 1-8, 2025 Tennessee

    Open

    Alum Story

    • Onsite is such a unique therapeutic experience. The team goes to such great lengths to make us feel comfortable enough to do our work. There really is no other place like Onsite. The Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy program literally saved my life. I am leaving restored and with so much hope.
      –Mark
      Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy Alum
    • The Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy program was the first time I felt safe with my secrets. This program equipped me with practical tools and a community of others who can provide support and solidarity.
      –Charlie
      Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy Alum
    • The Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy program showed me I am loved and I can be accepted. It helped me to grow in my emotions and communicate in a healthy manner.
      –Reed
      Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy Alum

    Designed for connection

    We focus on the details, so you can focus on growth.

    • Intentionally designed moments for play and laughter.
    • Two people chatting while standing on a porch
      Nurturing community that supports your healing process.
    • Farm-to-table meals that nourish you from the inside out. 
    • Moments of margin and rest to help you slow down and truly rest.
    • Bedroom lodging at Onsite's California campus
      Exceptional hospitality that sets the stage for healing.

      You’ll walk away from this seven-day program with: 

      • A better understanding of how acting out through sexual behaviors relates to the pain of your past 
      • Clarity around how your childhood story impacts your present sexual and relational life 
      • Strategies to change painful and destructive behavior patterns  
      • A deepened knowledge of addiction and codependency 
      • Skills to foster healthy intimacy and connection 
      • Increased self-compassion 
      • The ability to identify and experience feelings 
      • A refined definition of healthy sexuality vs. unhealthy sexuality 
      • Concrete steps to take towards recovery goals 
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      Frequently Asked

      Common questions about our Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy Workshop 

      Who is this workshop for?

      This program is specifically designed for men coping with unresolved painful past experiences through unhealthy sexual addictions and patterns. This workshop is most helpful for sex addicts with level 1 type behaviors as defined by Dr. Patrick Carnes in his book, Don’t Call it Love. Behaviors may include compulsive masturbation, compulsive use of pornography, affairs, romance and fantasy addiction, addiction to cybersex or chat lines, etc.  All workshop participants must be willing to discuss their acting-out behaviors and demonstrate a sincere desire to change. 

      What modalities are used?

      We combine various techniques to address your needs with support and a dash of empowered adventure. The three primary modalities utilized by Onsite are Experiential Therapy, Group Therapy, and Psychodrama. Learn more about Onsite modalities here. This program also utilizes adventure therapy as a healing modality.  

      Who guides this workshop?

      Our programs are guided by a team of carefully selected and trained therapists from across the country. Our world-renowned clinical team includes some of the top trauma-informed experts in the world. You can learn more about our team here. It’s important to note that while this program is specifically for men, our team of therapists and staff members may be female.

      How do I register?

      When you’re ready to take the next step, you can begin the registration process by calling our admissions team at (800) 341-7432 or by filling out this form.

      What is included in my registration?

      In addition to the therapeutic work, your program includes boutique accommodations, meals curated to meet your dietary needs, thoughtfully designed facilities, expansive outdoor space, and hiking trails for exploration and nature-guided healing.

      Do you take insurance?

      Currently, we are not able to bill insurance. Additionally, insurance companies are unlikely to reimburse clients because our programs do not occur in a hospital setting, and we do not generate a diagnosis for clients during programs.

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      The power of partnership

      As you support your clients, we are here to support you in taking their journey to the next level. 
       
      If you know someone who could benefit from our unique setting and transformative experiences, we warmly welcome your referral. 

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