Why “Fine” Isn’t Good Enough
If you were to ask me how I am on any given day, I’ll likely answer with an automated, “Fine. Good, busy. Just chugging along. Life is flying by!” Sound familiar?
If you’re like me, you may find yourself going through the motions, moving from one day to the next with a sense of routine and predictability. We wake up, go to work, manage our to-do lists, and maybe squeeze in a workout before we rush through dinner, do some laundry, and fall asleep on the couch watching “Nobody Wants This” for the third time, just to wake up and do it all over again.
It’s not bad. But it’s not great either. We’re not thriving—we’re fine.
And for a while, “fine” seems adequate. Routine and simplicity can lead to a really beautiful, purpose-filled, intentional life. But when I’m running on autopilot, I know deep down something is missing. It’s not that I’m unhappy, but I’m not living my best life either.
What if settling for “fine” is robbing us of the abundant life that’s actually available to us? What if settling for “fine” is preventing us from experiencing real joy, deep connection, and true fulfillment?
The Numbing Cycle
It’s easy to slip into a pattern of numbing ourselves when life feels busy. We turn to distractions—social media, Netflix, a glass of wine, or whatever helps us push aside discomfort. We think we’re keeping things under control, but in reality, we’re just living a muted version of life.
The truth is, you can’t numb the hard stuff without also numbing the good stuff. When you shut down feelings like grief, anger, or fear, you also close the door to joy, gratitude, and love. Life becomes less vibrant, less meaningful, and suddenly, “fine” is all that’s left.
What if I told you that we didn’t have to settle for a life that’s just fine? What if there’s more for you (and me)—a life that’s full of beauty, depth, and meaning, waiting on the other side of discomfort?
You Were Made for More
It won’t happen overnight, and it might feel uncomfortable at first. But you deserve to experience the fullness of life.
The first step is becoming aware. Becoming aware of yourself. Becoming aware of your feelings. Becoming aware of your medicators or coping mechanisms. Because as we often say, “self-awareness is a superpower” and it allows you the opportunity to become the person you dream of being.
For decades, our Living Centered Program has helped people disconnect from the busyness of life so they can reconnect to themselves, others, and life beyond “fine.”
If you’re ready to step beyond “fine” and embrace a life of more, we’re here to support you every step of the way.
